Child Birth Article

http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/childbirth-are-you-a-screamer/#comment-2931815
That link above should take you to the article I just read this morning, and trust me if you anything like me and are confused and completely lost about how you might take childbirth then read this. It pretty much lifted the boulder off of my shoulder. I'm constantly asking what am I gunna expect with childbirth and no one gives ANY positive NON SCARY feedback or at times they don't give any feedback at all and just say "O you'll be fine, don't worry about it." WHAT THE HELL DO YOU MEAN DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!!! <<< that's honestly what i feel like screaming back at them, but of course i don't i just move on from it and go about my business. I just don't want to freak out about it, i want to be calm and collect and I WANT INFO! and stories that aren't scary is that so hard to ask for... i mean really?????

This one lady at the supermarket heard me mention to another mom in line that i was having twins, then just had to walk me to the car just to babble on and on about how her sister didn't have the twin gene (whatever that meant) and that both of the babies didn't make it........ she went into detail (scary detail). but why??? why would you want to share a story like that to an expecting mom, all your gunna do is make them think and panic over it until someone actually calms them back down... which in my case is my doctor (who btw is AWESOME) so glad she the one taking care of me through all this, i trust her with my kids and me completely.

BUT ANYWAYS back to this great article, its the point of view from of course a mom and her experience with child birth and whether she was a screamer or not, there are also comments from other mothers who gave out their experiences with childbirth... this article really takes the not knowing out of my system and hopefully will help out with anyone else unknowing. Cuz honestly if theres no one to talk to or you can't find the info ur only other hope of "thinking" you know what will happen will be from movies... the screaming, crazy painful, sounding movies lol

much luv
KK